It’s 8;15 pm 29th of December, 2019 and I am writing this post. 15 minutes earlier I felt like a failure and sad that I did not do much in 2019. I went on my Instagram page, not sure what I was looking for, tapped a picture and the caption I used was ‘Where ever you are right nowLet it teach…

It’s such a complicated thing really. I sometimes imagine keeping the first child, he/she would have been also 5 years old. “Women are like teabags. We don’t know our true strength until we are in hot water.” – Eleanor Roosevelt This is the third episode in the Abortion series, please read with an open mind and share with a friend…

“Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.” —Nora Ephron Here is the second story on the “My Abortion Story” series. The honesty of these stories makes my heart melt. if you have not read Episode 1 you should read itMy Abortion Story – Anonymous Submission Ep.1 1. Why did you decide that you were going to…

There has been an uproar online by women, especially African women on Always pad, a lot of women are ditching the pad because of several reasons and to find out more and figure out better alternatives. I interviewed 15 amazing ladies on why they are ditching or have ditched Always pad and the alternatives they are using. This first post…

Abortion is a word we are all familiar with and have different opinions on. I strongly feel that connecting with women that have done this, by listening to their stories will trigger a feeling of empathy and not just entitlements to women’s bodies. I had a chat with a few women that have had abortions and here is the first…

I used this Nigerian App – Eyowo to send money using my ‘phone number’. Let me explain… I spoke about Eyowo in detail HERE – Eyowo, the answer to payment issues in Nigeria? and I said I will be showing you how I use the app. Today’s post is on adding your ATM card and transferring money through phone numbers and account…

I was having a conversation with my friend on taking husbands name, and I decided to ask on my Instagram page, so here are replies from 3 ladies on taking their husband’s name after marriage. Ebukun Gbemisola Ogunyemi Not taking and not adding.I’m very sentimental about my name, and I don’t believe taking on your husband’s name is an integral…

How to finish what you started article is coming from an ex chronic procrastinator. It is I, PEOPLE I am one of those people that used to procrastinate everything. Life allowed me to live with that until adulthood came in and humbled me. Having a 9-5, a blog and freelancing is not for the faint-hearted. I had to be more…

Follow my blog with Bloglovin Over time, I have been saying I am not sure I want children. You know how people have certain expectations of you when you are a Nigerian lady, submissiveness, and all that marry on time and give birth thing. Do you know? yes, that was pretty much my life when I was younger, and it…
Loving yourself – Self-love, I think, is one of the most misunderstood types of love, people think self-love is a destination you get to, and that brings so much pressure on everyone. We are humans and self-love is a gradual process just like everything with life. There will be days where you amuse yourself and your confidence demands that you…