It’s 7:27 PM on Tuesday, the 1st of May, 2021 which is the first day of pride month.  I’m on my bed, down with allergies. It sucks cause this is how it works; I was exposed to change of weather, cold, and dust so now everything I touch that’s cold causes a flare-up.  So, I have to bathe with warm water, drink warm water, can’t put on the AC/fan, lock my windows while I’m sweating in my big shirt because this is how to minimize the side effects I’m feeling.  My throat hurts and some part swollen, my nose keeps running and my head hurts because of the pain.  I…

Hi, it’s been a minute since we’ve had a conversation here. How have you been? Well, I hope. If you are not feeling good. Try floating. It will eventually get better. In February, I started a couple of things that I am proud of, made very hard decisions I am sure will make my life easier, and is leading me to more growth in every aspect of my life in the long run. There are some things I cannot share because I don’t want to jinx it. But soon Things I started  Being on YouTube consistently If you have been here for a minute, you would know that I started…

I was nervous but not like soo nervous. Confused? well, that makes both of us. I had a photoshoot earlier with an old friend and I almost canceled the session. In fact, I did. She just did not see the message. My shoot was dragging and I was still nervous so I sent her a message about postponing. 30 minutes before the scheduled time I called and asked if she saw my message. She said she did not and asked if I was running late and I was like. You know what. Yes.  With the needed push from my friend. I went and was 5 minutes late.  I apologized. She…

What do you do when you are tired of how you treat yourself? You breathe, calm down and listen to yourself. What do you do when you feel stupid for allowing yourself settle for less? You breathe, allow the tears flow, let your eyes hurt from crying and breathe again. What do you do when you feel anger towards yourself? You breathe, calm down, and remind yourself that you’re human; you’re soft, sometimes vulnerable, sometimes a little bit too hopeful, rarely, but this time. You settled for less. What do you do when everything in you wants to break down but you can’t cry? You breathe, you smile, and try…

Christmas is here again, the time of the year we celebrate the birth of Christ and what I particularly love about it is how it brings the family together, people travel home and travel together. I love the spirit of Christmas, people get warmer and everyone seems happy, softens my heart. People travel all over the world to celebrate Christmas, I will be in Nigeria this Christmas and I know that a lot of my readers will be looking for places to travel to so I’ve decided to curate a list of the best Christmas destinations in the world that I’ll love to travel to, hopefully this helps you. And…

A Bucket list is basically a list of things one will like to do before death, man’s not getting any younger so it can be a way of doing something out of the ordinary or just having fun, I learned about the bucket list when I watched a movie about 2 old men dying and they completed everything on their bucket list, it made them enjoy their last days. While I’m not dying now in Jesus name, I love to do things and look back on them and tell myself I cannot believe I did that, just enjoy my life to the fullest, I have a wild side to me.…