I am very familiar with feeling like one does not belong somewhere, feel like a burden, and not feel safe and seen with people around you. Because of my past with bullying, depression, and low self-esteem. These emotions are not new to me. And you know how we become what we would like to see in other people. Or is…
Boundaries only offend people who have none for you or themselves
Hi? I actually don’t know what to say. It’s been so long since you’ve heard from me. A lot has happened this year, the COVID-19 virus, the BLM movement, the SARS protest & more. I’m glad you’re here. Breathing, with me. That’s enough. Really, this year has been a lot. The reason for my unplanned break is not news to…
Hey you, how is the COVID-19 lockdown in your country? mine has been eased and I am worried, I hope they find a vaccine soon. The topic of my post is probably shocking to you. Especially my close friends. They know how I flow like a river, the pain, and the weird cravings that come with my period. I am…
The day before yesterday, I wore a yellow crop top and thongs, danced in front of my mirror smiling and laughing at myself. On Sunday, after Our President declared the lock-down. I had a panic attack. I had been home for days before it was officially declared that there was going to be a lockdown in my state and other…
It’s 8;15 pm 29th of December, 2019 and I am writing this post. 15 minutes earlier I felt like a failure and sad that I did not do much in 2019. I went on my Instagram page, not sure what I was looking for, tapped a picture and the caption I used was ‘Where ever you are right nowLet it teach…
I used this Nigerian App – Eyowo to send money using my ‘phone number’. Let me explain… I spoke about Eyowo in detail HERE – Eyowo, the answer to payment issues in Nigeria? and I said I will be showing you how I use the app. Today’s post is on adding your ATM card and transferring money through phone numbers and account…
How to finish what you started article is coming from an ex chronic procrastinator. It is I, PEOPLE I am one of those people that used to procrastinate everything. Life allowed me to live with that until adulthood came in and humbled me. Having a 9-5, a blog and freelancing is not for the faint-hearted. I had to be more…
Follow my blog with Bloglovin Over time, I have been saying I am not sure I want children. You know how people have certain expectations of you when you are a Nigerian lady, submissiveness, and all that marry on time and give birth thing. Do you know? yes, that was pretty much my life when I was younger, and it…
Loving yourself – Self-love, I think, is one of the most misunderstood types of love, people think self-love is a destination you get to, and that brings so much pressure on everyone. We are humans and self-love is a gradual process just like everything with life. There will be days where you amuse yourself and your confidence demands that you…