Life Bits
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How I’m Dealing With Anxiety During A Pandemic
The day before yesterday, I wore a yellow crop top and thongs, danced in front of my mirror smiling and laughing at myself. On Sunday, after Our President declared the lock-down. I had a panic attack. I had been home for days before it was officially declared that there was going to be a lockdown in my state and other states. The reality of the situation finally set in. I knew what was going on, I knew how dangerous COVID-19 is and why the lockdown is the best way to handle the situation. The fewer people that get infected, the better. I could hear the sound of my heart beating, my hands…
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2019 Recap; Taking stock & Moving Forward
It’s 8;15 pm 29th of December, 2019 and I am writing this post. 15 minutes earlier I felt like a failure and sad that I did not do much in 2019. I went on my Instagram page, not sure what I was looking for, tapped a picture and the caption I used was ‘Where ever you are right nowLet it teach you something.Be kind to yourselfOn the journeyAnd in the processOf who you are becoming’ MHN It was a quote by MHN and tears dropped on my cheeks and I continued reading my captions on Instagram and I felt better. Life has a funny way of making our wins look small and I…
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I used this Nigerian App to Send Money Using My phone Number
I used this Nigerian App – Eyowo to send money using my ‘phone number’. Let me explain… I spoke about Eyowo in detail HERE – Eyowo, the answer to payment issues in Nigeria? and I said I will be showing you how I use the app. Today’s post is on adding your ATM card and transferring money through phone numbers and account details. Before you can use the Eyowo app to make any transaction, you must fund your Eyowo wallet. How to fund your Eyowo Wallet 1. It showed add a card and I added the details of my card, 2. I was asked for my card pin, 3. A six-digit number was…
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7 Trusted ways on How To Finish What You Started
How to finish what you started article is coming from an ex chronic procrastinator. It is I, PEOPLE I am one of those people that used to procrastinate everything. Life allowed me to live with that until adulthood came in and humbled me. Having a 9-5, a blog and freelancing is not for the faint-hearted. I had to be more productive, I had to finish every project I started. So, I’ll be sharing a few tips that have helped me with finishing what I’ve started 7 Tips on How To Finish What You Started Know why you’re starting Why are you taking up a new online course? Why have you…
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Being a Nigerian Lady that Might Not Want Children
Follow my blog with Bloglovin Over time, I have been saying I am not sure I want children. You know how people have certain expectations of you when you are a Nigerian lady, submissiveness, and all that marry on time and give birth thing. Do you know? yes, that was pretty much my life when I was younger, and it never felt right so, when I discovered feminism it all made sense and I did not feel alone anymore. There were women that wanted what I want. I was seen, I was heard, I was no longer invisible. I made a promise to myself to question every action I take;…
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Loving Yourself Before Getting into a Relationship
Loving yourself – Self-love, I think, is one of the most misunderstood types of love, people think self-love is a destination you get to, and that brings so much pressure on everyone. We are humans and self-love is a gradual process just like everything with life. There will be days where you amuse yourself and your confidence demands that you should be worshipped and there will be days where you are not ready to look at yourself in the mirror. That does not mean you don’t love yourself. It’s important to love yourself and be somewhere with yourself before you go into a relationship. Why? Let me explain. Where there…
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I Was Bullied in Secondary School – Here’s how I got over it
I think it’s one of the ways we deal with pain, I like to think that it happens subconsciously. I don’t know if it’s a good thing or not. If it’s the right thing to do or not but it helps a little. I was bullied in secondary school and it was the time of my life that changed my perspective of the world, made me feel worthless and stupid. I hated myself. Bullying in secondary school is not something a lot of people talk about here in Nigeria. Some parents do not know that bullying in secondary school is a thing. A big deal. Especially boarding school where they…
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Eyowo, the answer to payment issues in Nigeria?
I cannot even begin to describe how many times Nigerian banks have messed me up when it comes to money I remember going on a date with my friends who blog, theblackwriter and thoniabankz. We had a good time taking pictures, eating, and talking about the blogging community in Lagos and Abuja amongst other things at central park Abuja. It was a fun day. When the sun started packing out of the sky, it was time to pay and go home. I was the only one with an ATM card, so everyone transferred to me, but it took 40 minutes for the money to come in- not only did that ruin my plans of…
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Life lately, Revisiting 2019 goals, Starting a YouTube channel
Almost everyone on YouTube has good skin and I started comparing myself to them. I told myself that I have a lot to share, I have stories to tell, Revisiting 2019 goals At the beginning of the year, I set some pretty decent goals. I think most of us did and it’s necessary to revisit the goals you set halfway into the year so you know what areas in your life you need to focus on. Half of the year is gone already and time is precious. Here I am revisiting mine; I will advise you to do the same. You can read the complete blog post on my goals…
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My Yoni (Vagina) Massage Experience & Where To Get Yoni Massage
Yoni massage is a type of massage that focuses on the Vulva and Vagina. Yoni is the Sanskrit word for vagina which means ‘sacred space‘ In Tantra philosophy, the vagina is approached from a place of the utmost love and respect. Yoni massage is a practice intended to truly honor a woman, give her selfless pleasure, and explore the sacred side of our sexuality. About 2 weeks ago, I received a Yoni massage, and boy oh boy! My Yoni Massage Experience Before meeting up for the massage, I was nervous, I mean. A stranger’s hand was going to be in my Yoni, but I was really stressed, very stressed, working…