I think it’s one of the ways we deal with pain, I like to think that it happens subconsciously. I don’t know if it’s a good thing or not. If it’s the right thing to do or not but it helps a little. I was bullied in secondary school and it was the time of my life that changed my perspective of the world, made me feel worthless and stupid. I hated myself. Bullying in secondary school is not something a lot of people talk about here in Nigeria. Some parents do not know that bullying in secondary school is a thing. A big deal.  Especially boarding school where they…

I cannot even begin to describe how many times Nigerian banks have messed me up when it comes to money I remember going on a date with my friends who blog, theblackwriter and thoniabankz. We had a good time taking pictures, eating, and talking about the blogging community in Lagos and Abuja amongst other things at central park Abuja. It was a fun day. When the sun started packing out of the sky, it was time to pay and go home. I was the only one with an ATM card, so everyone transferred to me, but it took 40 minutes for the money to come in- not only did that ruin my plans of…

Almost everyone on YouTube has good skin and I started comparing myself to them. I told myself that I have a lot to share, I have stories to tell, Revisiting 2019 goals At the beginning of the year, I set some pretty decent goals. I think most of us did and it’s necessary to revisit the goals you set halfway into the year so you know what areas in your life you need to focus on. Half of the year is gone already and time is precious. Here I am revisiting mine; I will advise you to do the same. You can read the complete blog post on my goals…

“Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that some people only enter your life as temporary happiness.” Love is beautiful, peaceful, and sometimes confusing. At least that is what it has been for me. However, what happens when things don’t go as we imagined? When you have done your best yet, certain events remain unresolvable? You move! Moving on is a difficult thing to do, especially when a person is a good person.I have been there. I got out of a relationship some months back, and it was one of the most challenging decisions I’ve taken in recent times. It’s hard to let go of what you cherish, what…

I write this at 8; 27 am, Saturday, January 2019 thinking of where I am now and smiling at myself, midway tears gather in my eyes and I  let them out. Dear younger self This is a letter from me to you. When you get to school, don’t be worried about what other people think and the rumor flying around about you, other people’s word does not define you. You are more than that. People see you doing the things you love and they say you love attention, let them say. Never let your light dim. That light and zeal to do what you enjoy will open doors for you. You will…

In my last post, I spoke about conquering goals for 2019 so I want to share some of my favorite writings for inspiration on Challenges, strength, and growth. So you can always come back to this post when you feel like you’re stuck, you lack motivation or can’t just move forward because I’ve learned that the right message can provide the drive we need to keep going when we’ve lost our zeal and life feels overwhelming. I plan to print some and hang in my room, I think you should too. I need to know that you’re on the same page with me, so read this out loud to yourself. 2019You’re mineI…