Hello dear reader, it’s been a minute since you’ve heard from me, I apologize and I hope to fill you in on why I’ve been away, where I am presently so we can continue from where we stopped or start afresh? Maybe? It’s been over a month that I’ve put up a new blog post, exactly a month that I’ve checked my blog notification and stats. Life Lately – Detaching from Emotions I have a bad habit of running away from what I want to do and my problems in general as if it makes them disappear. This is how I have been detaching myself from my emotions of late,…

I read a tweet on how black girls are often conditioned to tie so much of our self-worth to our hair, how we are being bombarded with hair growth obsession in the natural hair community, putting too much energy trying to prove that our hair can grow and if this ain’t true! When I had long healthy hair, I felt this but did not completely understand, since I had my big chop it’s been something else. My first week at work after I cut my hair One of the staff I work with practically sat me down to talk about how I look like a child and like a boy,…

I was invited to an event at the civic lab by one of the speakers. I didn’t know what the event was going to be about and That was one of the most knowledgeable events I’ve ever been to. First to speak was Pastor Rotimi He spoke extensively on leadership; developing a leadership mentality and capacity. I’ll share my notes with you because it’s important to fuel your soul with words you don’t hear every day. How to Develop a leadership mentality Don’t have an entitlement mentality: Stop feeling entitled to people’s help, he hammered on the fact that students should start building their brand from school, he left home at 14 and…

Female friendship is a type of relationship that when spoken about is associated with hate, envy, jealousy, and betrayal. I’ve been to several states and went to about 4 secondary school so I’ve made a lot of “friends” that I’ve had to let go of over time. There was pain in loosing contacts and realizing there’s nothing to talk about after getting back in contact. When I was younger I believed girls were bad friends and a girl will be your friend and think low and very bad of you. This was intensified by the “there are no friends because you don’t know who is going to hurt you in…

Ever felt a rush of emotions that you can’t control? like your suppressed anger and pain was dancing in front of you, where you can feel it but you also can’t feel it? You want to explode but know how your emotions can get the best of you and it’s better not to allow yourself? Make rash decisions then you wonder why you made such a dumb decision? That was how I felt on the 31st of May, 2018. I knew that something was wrong and I needed to be with my self, take care of myself, listen to myself more than I usually do and just be one with myself.…

Welcome back to my blog and I AM SORRY for not apologizing for being away in my last post, I traveled to Ondo state for my convocation and had to visit my BEAUTIFUL grandmother. I decided to do this fun and actually too much information tag I did on my old blog, I wanted to answer all the questions you have about me in a blog post but I will do that in a live video soon (I asked for questions on Instagram). You should follow me on Instagram @olotufunke HOW TO PACK LIGHT FOR TRAVEL WITHOUT ANY REGRETS Let’s begin with the too much information tag. Shall we? Do I…

Packing light was not something that came naturally to me, I hate having regrets after traveling so I used to overpack – not wear more than half of what I packed. Overpacking has cost me money, energy, and stressed the life out of me. With time, I have learned to pack light and since being appreciating the art of packing light and the peace of mind that comes with it so I’ll be sharing tips on not just how to pack light but how to pack light without any regrets and save flight money! Are you ready to learn how to pack light? Let’s go! Choose The Right Bag For…

I love knowledge; I often surround myself with books and have intelligent conversations. It’s just really beautiful. When I saw a picture on Instagram about the sister’s network hangout & book reading event,the lady entrepreneur in me knew I needed to attend. I mentioned here that I wanted to go out more, Network and I honestly prefer gaining knowledge over just chilling & sipping wine or maybe it just depends on my mood. I arrived at MaisonTheCafe late; my Taxify driver woke up on the wrong side of the bed. I’m sure I was not the problem. Maisonthecafe was smaller than I imagined but really cute and it had this outdoor space that I fancy. I chatted with…

There is no Shame in Beginning Again, for you get a chance to build bigger & better than before – Recoveryexperts.com Welcome! Beginning Again. – Losing my contents made me realize how much I love writing and documenting it for you. I never want to lose that again. A post on how I lost my contents and advise for bloggers on hosting and content security is coming right up. I’ll get to what has been going on with me and if this is your first time ever checking my blog. Welcome! and please stay.   I am currently serving in a Hospital in Abuja. Attended my first bloggers’ event Taking up fashion…