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3 Women Talk on Taking their Husbands Name, Will they take it or not?
I was having a conversation with my friend on taking husbands name, and I decided to ask on my Instagram page, so here are replies from 3 ladies on taking their husband’s name after marriage. Ebukun Gbemisola Ogunyemi Not taking and not adding.I’m very sentimental about my name, and I don’t believe taking on your husband’s name is an integral process of unionization. I think it’s just a patriarchal motivated ‘directive’ – the seal of Belonging to him and not yourself. You answer to him. Cos you bear his name now. And not your father. But then, I believe a lot of women have been integrated into the process so…
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7 Trusted ways on How To Finish What You Started
How to finish what you started article is coming from an ex chronic procrastinator. It is I, PEOPLE I am one of those people that used to procrastinate everything. Life allowed me to live with that until adulthood came in and humbled me. Having a 9-5, a blog and freelancing is not for the faint-hearted. I had to be more productive, I had to finish every project I started. So, I’ll be sharing a few tips that have helped me with finishing what I’ve started 7 Tips on How To Finish What You Started Know why you’re starting Why are you taking up a new online course? Why have you…
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Being a Nigerian Lady that Might Not Want Children
Follow my blog with Bloglovin Over time, I have been saying I am not sure I want children. You know how people have certain expectations of you when you are a Nigerian lady, submissiveness, and all that marry on time and give birth thing. Do you know? yes, that was pretty much my life when I was younger, and it never felt right so, when I discovered feminism it all made sense and I did not feel alone anymore. There were women that wanted what I want. I was seen, I was heard, I was no longer invisible. I made a promise to myself to question every action I take;…
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Loving Yourself Before Getting into a Relationship
Loving yourself – Self-love, I think, is one of the most misunderstood types of love, people think self-love is a destination you get to, and that brings so much pressure on everyone. We are humans and self-love is a gradual process just like everything with life. There will be days where you amuse yourself and your confidence demands that you should be worshipped and there will be days where you are not ready to look at yourself in the mirror. That does not mean you don’t love yourself. It’s important to love yourself and be somewhere with yourself before you go into a relationship. Why? Let me explain. Where there…
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I Was Bullied in Secondary School – Here’s how I got over it
I think it’s one of the ways we deal with pain, I like to think that it happens subconsciously. I don’t know if it’s a good thing or not. If it’s the right thing to do or not but it helps a little. I was bullied in secondary school and it was the time of my life that changed my perspective of the world, made me feel worthless and stupid. I hated myself. Bullying in secondary school is not something a lot of people talk about here in Nigeria. Some parents do not know that bullying in secondary school is a thing. A big deal. Especially boarding school where they…
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Is The Agege Bread Burger Worth The Hype!??
On Friday, I went on a date withthe fit priest and we decided to visit Urban loft Abuja. I had come across an ad from the urban loft with their special Agege bread burger and it immediately pricked my interest.I wanted to try it so bad and I did. The urban loft is located at House of Freeda, 7 Lingu crescent Wuse 2 off Aminu Kano Cresent, Abuja. It is very easy to locate. Was the burger worth the hype? how much does it cost? Customer service and Ambience? Watch the video below to find out all the information you need. Also, this is my first vlog. I was excited to make this.…
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3 Things Every Woman MUST know about Her Vulva
They are like our faces, there is no normal looking vulva and I wish I knew this when I was younger because I remember telling I am going to be writing about the vulva a couple of times because over the years I have realized that a lot of us, women do not know enough about our bodies, which is not surprising because apart from the don’t get pregnant talk, we did not really get any form of sex education from our parents/guardians. Especially in this part of the world. I took it upon myself to learn about my body especially the vagina and I will be sharing what I have learned…
