Feminism, Life Bits

Vasectomy; How it’s done And All You Need To Know

vasectomy

Vasectomy is rarely spoken about, Most times when we talk about birth control methods we focus on the women, a lot of people do not know that apart from condom there’s another way men can be in charge of preventing pregnancy. I read one of the most knowledgeable and very explanatory thread I’ve read on twitter about Vasectomy by Dr. Olufunmilayo, a Medical doctor on twitter that shares useful information about health on twitter.

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Life Bits

8 Tips On Saving Money For Travel


How to save money for travel

I was having a conversation with my friends earlier today and I told them about my desire to travel, I just feel like breathing a different type of air, experience another culture, look at the sky from a new place and take pictures but right now it’s not happening mainly because of money but I’m sure that very soon it will happen because I’m going to start saving for travel

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Skin Care

Product Review – Clinique Moisture Surge 72 Hour Hydrator

Last month I attended a Clinique indoor influencer event at their store which is located at Jabi Lake mall. Their store is aesthetically pleasing, I had a great time; learned about the brand, some of their products and took the tape test.

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Personal Style

4 Tips on Staying True To Your Personal Style + Outfit Post

Staying true to my personal style has been a very difficult process; there was a point in my life I felt that I didn’t know myself and certain insecurities defined my personal style and it’s that not what it’s supposed to be about? Your style is supposed to reflect how you’re feeling and where you are.

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Life Bits

Let’s Talk About The Standards Of Female Friendships.

Female friendships is a type of relationship that when spoken about is associated with hate, envy, Jealousy and betrayal.

I’ve been to several states and went to about 4 secondary school so I’ve made a lot of “friends” that I’ve had to let go of over time.

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Life Bits

Sex As A Form Of Therapy to Girls And How To Heal

Sex as therapy

I was having a conversation with some women on sex and self-esteem. Reading my post on sexuality means I encourage women to accept their sexuality but this conversation was the reason behind why some ladies are very sexual. And God bless that day, a strong and amazing soul was ready to share her story with me centered on this issue.

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Feminism

Are Feminists Fake For Not Proposing To Their Partners?

I was reading one of the most amazing Essay I’ve read that was authored by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie titled Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen suggestions. This book was a letter in response to a friend of Chimamanda who asked how to raise her daughter, Feminist.  I learned so much from this book that I will be breaking down some lessons in upcoming blog posts, today’s focus is on marriage proposals.

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Poetry

A Story – Red wine and flowers

A story

She’s the one!.. the other girl whispered loudly  “maybe they just look alike”

I heard them, I was buying cereals at the supermarket, it’s been 3 months, I thought no one would recognize me.

I quickly wore my big D&G sunglasses, adjusted my already sagging silk scarf, made way for home crying as I drove

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Feminism

5 Alarming Effects of not Educating the Girl Child About Sex

girl child about sex

Sex education is not just a talk, it’s a series of conversation. A lot of girls like me never really got educated about sex apart from the ‘if you get close to a boy you will get pregnant’ talk, the girl child should be educated about sex depending on their age, the questions they ask and as puberty hits, help them understand their desires, why they think and feel how they feel and not shame them.

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