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4 Women Talk About Body Insecurities And Overcoming Them

What a mess I have made with nothing but an idea that I am not enough – Chloe Frayne

Most of us have felt insecure one way or the other, I know I have. I hated my nose growing up and I was being constantly mocked for it, then as I grew older my skin became my worst nightmare. I wrote all about that HERE – My Acne Depression Story .

Being insecure is almost too common these days even though we don’t talk about it enough, the media had fueled this by always pushing what the ideal woman should look like down our throats.

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Last Notes on 2018, How to Conquer 2019 Goals

Writing this with mixed feelings, I’m happy and grateful to be in the new year with my family and friends but I’m sad that I had a lot planned before the new year that had to be canceled because my phone got bad and cannot be fixed.

I already wrote a heartfelt post about 2018 and one about 2019, I had clients to attend to, my notepad with poetry, blog post ideas, articles, my contacts, over 6000 pictures and videos most of which were not backed up all gone.

My phone spoilt before Christmas and after being assured that it was going to be fixed, it cannot. But I can’t compare this to being alive with all the people I love, I was not robbed, I am not in the hospital, I am alive, here. I’m grateful to God.

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5 Top Christmas Destination in 2019

Christmas is here again, the time of the year we celebrate the birth of Christ and what I particularly love about it is how it brings the family together, people travel home and travel together. I love the spirit of Christmas, people get warmer and everyone seems happy, softens my heart.

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4 maybe creepy things on my bucket list

A Bucket list is basically a list of things one will like to do before death, man’s not getting any younger so it can be a way of doing something out of the ordinary or just having fun, I learned about the bucket list when I watched a movie about 2 old men dying and they completed everything on their bucket list, it made them enjoy their last days.

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Gurara falls in Niger State; All You Need To Know About Visiting

Gurara falls is a gem located in Niger state, Nigeria. I was glad I got the opportunity to go visit such an amazing place. Prior to my last post on getting rejected for a job and advising you to take some steps backward and really think about the direction you want to take in life. I took my own advice and started fashion school, I’ve wanted to be in fashion school since I was 13, 14. We will talk about my love and passion for fashion another day.

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How to deal with Job Disappointment after NYSC

 

Disappointment after NYSC seems to be the order of the day and it’s just getting worse with the economy going downwards, I went for a job interview about 3 weeks before my passing out parade, it was a writing job and I was selected among the ‘accepted applicants’ I was happy, I was overwhelmed, joyful, I wanted to shout on top of my lungs.

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Talking About Reactions To My Hair Cut

I read a tweet on how black girls are often conditioned to tie so much of our self-worth to our hair, how we are being bombarded with hair growth obsession in the natural hair community, putting too much energy trying to prove that our hair can grow and if this ain’t true!

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Vasectomy; How it’s done And All You Need To Know

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Vasectomy is rarely spoken about, Most times when we talk about birth control methods we focus on the women, a lot of people do not know that apart from condom there’s another way men can be in charge of preventing pregnancy. I read one of the most knowledgeable and very explanatory thread I’ve read on twitter about Vasectomy by Dr. Olufunmilayo, a Medical doctor on twitter that shares useful information about health on twitter.

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