Female Development and Style

Long-time no style post. I’m sorry about that, I have been going as the spirit leads. Today, we are talking about shoes, heels in particular.

I love heels, to me, they symbolize power. When I wear heels, I feel like I run the world, my hips sway better, I hold my head high, my confidence skyrockets, and my stature is fire.

I won’t say I have a love/hate relationship with heels – I love them, I walk well in them, and if I do not feel like wearing them I wear my sneakers. When it comes to fashion, comfort is key, although there are exceptions to the rule – when I am going for a certain type of look, I can make myself uncomfortable. The pain is temporary but slay is forever innit?

Today’s focus will be on stiletto heels. Stilettos are shoes with long, thin heels usually of 1inch to 10 inches. They create an illusion of longer, slimmer legs and overall greater height and best of all, they add class to an outfit. If you enjoy this post, I can make more posts on styling fashion essentials.


Here are 3 ways to style your Stiletto heels:

Stiletto with Denim

girl with mom jeans and stilettos
Lisa Hahnbueck (@lisarvd) wearing a navy dark blue oversized Boyfriend Denim Jacket Citizens of Humanity Wilkes, a black H&M Trend Knit, a black Set fashion leather skirt, white Vetements sexual fantasies cotton blend Socks, black Christian Louboutin Lace heels 120, clutch MCM heritage pouch large bag on November 4, 2016 in Berlin, Germany. (Photo by Christian Vierig/Getty Images)
Lisa Hahnbueck (@lisarvd) wearing a navy dark blue oversized Boyfriend Denim Jacket

We can all agree that denim is not going out of style anytime soon, it is actually now a wardrobe staple. Boots are amazing with Denim trousers for a chic look and lacy Louboutins can balance a heavy denim jacket with any choice of bottoms. You can add socks for an edgy look.

Stiletto with a blazer

Whether you are pairing your blazer with matching pants, large culottes or a leather mini skirt, stilettos are there to give you that class you need as a very stylish working lady.

business woman wearing blazer and stiletto sitting down
black woman styling stiletoes heels

Stiletto with Skirts

Whether you want a gothic girly look or you just want to play it chic. Stilettos are perfect.

German fashion blogger and model Alexandra Lapp wearing socks and stiletto
German fashion blogger and model Alexandra Lapp wearing socks and stiletto
 Huong Le wearing a red cap, white bra, white jacket, navy skirt, net tights, white socks in stiletto and red bag
Huong Le wearing a red cap, white bra, white jacket, navy skirt, net tights, white socks in stiletto and red bag

PHOTOS: Christian Vierig/Getty Images.

With these few points of mine, I hope I have been able to convince you that stilettos are a wardrobe staple. And because I love you, here is a website that you can find similar Stiletto and more! Buy Stilettos

FSJshoes is a worldwide women’s shoe brand that have handmade shoes, you can also customize your shoe by sending a picture, fancy? check them out.


Are you a fan of high heels? Stilettos or not? I would love to hear from you


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  • Posted July 24, 2019 12:23 pm
    by Sassyefeosa


  • Posted July 27, 2019 8:36 pm
    by Sarah

    I love stilettos so much and I feel you can never go wrong with a pair

  • Posted July 29, 2019 9:18 pm
    by Terri Beavers

    I’m so jealous of anyone that can pull off a good pair of stilettoes. I used to be in that crowd until my spine collapsed, long story, so now I just get to admire them from afar. I love all of the ways you’ve suggested stying them.

    • Posted July 30, 2019 8:13 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Awwwnn.. so sorry about that. health is more important

  • Posted July 30, 2019 2:05 am
    by Angelica Sereda

    Stiletto’s are always a good idea…especially with a blazer. So chic!

    • Posted July 30, 2019 8:11 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      yesss… that is all you need to complete the look

  • Posted July 30, 2019 2:44 am
    by Heather

    I absolutely love stilettos! I haven’t worn them in a VERY long time though.

  • Posted July 30, 2019 3:29 am
    by Cinny

    I can’t wear those, so gorgeous but so high! LOL, it’s so hard for me to see socks with stilettos though.

    • Posted July 30, 2019 8:11 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Haha, that style is for certain type of daring people, i completely understand

  • Posted July 30, 2019 3:35 am
    by Paula Schuck

    I love stilettos but I never wear them. They are so much work. They sure look great though. I like the stilettos and jeans look. Very fashionable.

    • Posted July 30, 2019 8:05 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Awwwnn, you are sure about them being alot of work, anything you are comfortable with Paula

  • Posted July 30, 2019 1:10 pm
    by Emily Fata

    As someone who is an inch shy of being six feet, I tend to feel more self-conscious about wearing stilettos. However, when I do, I always do it with confidence and rock it. These are some great looks that I’ll love to try next time I have reason to go out and about in heels!

    • Posted July 30, 2019 6:02 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Okayyyy Emily! I love the confidence and talk girl are winning!

  • Posted July 30, 2019 2:05 pm
    by Amy-Lynn Denham

    Who knew we’d see a day when people would wear socks with stilettos… lol I’m feeling old now

    • Posted July 30, 2019 6:02 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Haha .. there are a lot of trends coming up these days. I’ll be here to let you know !

  • Posted July 30, 2019 7:43 pm
    by Emman Damian

    Stiletto heels are very difficult to wear as per my girl. It’s all about confidence and the right skirt! Also, it’s about how you walk on it. So own the runway, girl!

  • Posted July 31, 2019 2:40 am
    by Wendy Polisi

    I So wish I could wear these more. They’re so cute and go with so many different outfits.

  • Posted July 31, 2019 2:41 am
    by Tiffany La Forge-Grau

    I looooooove wearing stilettos. You have some cute ideas and I can’t wait to try one or two of them out to change things up.

  • Posted July 31, 2019 3:42 am
    by Rosey

    Ah in my youth I could rock some heels. I wore them everywhere. I miss them so. 🙂

  • Posted August 2, 2019 9:42 am
    by Quin Cl

    I like and don’t like stilettos at the same time. I love looking at them, especially in another woman, but when I wear them, I just couldn’t tolerate wearing them for more than 15 minutes lol

    • Posted August 4, 2019 7:35 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Ahah.. you can always wear it when you won’t be walking and I love seeing ladies in stilettos too🧡

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