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Female Development and Style

Abortion Story – Anonymous submission. Ep 5

In today’s Abortion story, we have a 30-year old that regrets her abortion and wishes she had told her family about it. 1. Why did you decide that you were going to get an abortion? I was too afraid, afraid of what my family would say, I was still in school and I found out few weeks before a major…

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2019 Recap; Taking stock & Moving Forward

It’s 8;15 pm 29th of December, 2019 and I am writing this post. 15 minutes earlier I felt like a failure and sad that I did not do much in 2019.

I went on my Instagram page, not sure what I was looking for, tapped a picture and the caption I used was

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Why I cried and embarrassed myself at NYSC camp

NYSC camp was one of the weird things that excited me just like going to boarding school.

I had heard a lot about the camp from waking up by 4 am to standing under the sun for hours with mean army officials and something about the experience and stories made me eager to experience camp.

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7 Trusted ways on How To Finish What You Started

This How to finish what you started article is coming from an ex chronic procrastinator. It is I, ladies and gentlemen. I am one of those people that used to procrastinate everything. Life allowed me to live with that until adulthood came in and humbled me. Having a 9-5, a blog and freelancing is not for the faint-hearted. I had…

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Let’s Talk About The Standards Of Female Friendships.

Female friendships is a type of relationship that when spoken about is associated with hate, envy, Jealousy and betrayal.

I’ve been to several states and went to about 4 secondary school so I’ve made a lot of “friends” that I’ve had to let go of over time.

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Sex As A Form Of Therapy to Girls And How To Heal

Sex as therapy

I was having a conversation with some women on sex and self-esteem. Reading my post on sexuality means I encourage women to accept their sexuality but this conversation was the reason behind why some ladies are very sexual. And God bless that day, a strong and amazing soul was ready to share her story with me centered on this issue.

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Are Feminists Fake For Not Proposing To Their Partners?

I was reading one of the most amazing Essay I’ve read that was authored by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie titled Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen suggestions. This book was a letter in response to a friend of Chimamanda who asked how to raise her daughter, Feminist.  I learned so much from this book that I will be breaking down some lessons in upcoming blog posts, today’s focus is on marriage proposals.

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A Story – Red wine and flowers

A story

She’s the one!.. the other girl whispered loudly  “maybe they just look alike”

I heard them, I was buying cereals at the supermarket, it’s been 3 months, I thought no one would recognize me.

I quickly wore my big D&G sunglasses, adjusted my already sagging silk scarf, made way for home crying as I drove

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Things Men Should Know About The 21st Century Woman

I always come across a lot of articles on what men need, what women need to know about men, how to act around men and all of those while I see very few articles for men about women, most of which are misleading and/or insulting to the 21st-century woman. Here are a couple of things men need to know about the 21st -century women in no particular order. Ladies, please feel free to add yours in the comment section below.

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A Day Of Self Love And Social Media detox

social media detox

Ever felt a rush of emotions that you can’t control? like your suppressed anger and pain was dancing in front of you, where you can feel it but you also can’t feel it? You want to explode but know how your emotions can get the best of you and it’s better not to allow yourself? Make rash decisions then you wonder why you made such a dumb decision?

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