Female Development and Style

Is something wrong with me?

Because I am the one.

The one men come to when they want a slice of heaven

When it’s time to let go of it all

When they want to feed their bones with joy

They always come

They always take part of me


They never stay.

What is wrong with me?


You see, you have precious stones and light inside you, some days you give emerald, some days ruby. Some days light that can last a town for years.

There is an immediate thirst at the sight of your being, the craving of what you have to offer. There is so much power living inside you.

So, these men. they come, they come to have a taste.

Anike, you should know that the best of them all is not deserving of you. So next time when they come to take, you refuse.

Let them till the soil and say their prayers before they are allowed into your holy place.


Funke Olotu


  • Posted March 11, 2019 3:55 pm
    by Anonymous

    Wow true and inspiring

  • Posted March 11, 2019 4:16 pm
    by Cynthia

    Love this ??❤️❤️

  • Posted March 14, 2019 4:22 pm
    by Stacie

    This is one of the most powerful posts I’ve read in a long time. It’s amazing how much you can say with a few words when they’re the right ones.

  • Posted March 14, 2019 8:00 pm
    by jaye shields

    Your post is powerful and so are the pictures you chose to go with it. Thank you for sharing.

  • Posted March 14, 2019 8:31 pm
    by Melanie Walsh

    Your words are filled with so much emotion. I can see the self-understanding grow throughout the post as the question stops being “What’s wrong with me?” and then moves onto how to display empowerment in the relationship.

    • Posted March 14, 2019 8:32 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you so much. You have no idea how much this means to me ?

  • Posted March 14, 2019 9:13 pm
    by Eno


    I hear this loud and clear. I want you to know there absolutely nothing wrong with you!

    If not for anything, you are much more than a slice of heaven.
    Maybe it’s time for this “slice” to be put back in the shelf and kept away from grabbing stingy hands till the right guest comes along.
    Above all else, protect your heart.

    Love and light,

    • Posted March 14, 2019 9:16 pm
      by thefunkeolotu


      Thank you so much baby. It’s about time. Really. It’s time.

      I will protect my heart ?

  • Posted March 15, 2019 2:53 am
    by Subhashish Roy

    It’s such a meaningful write up & soul stirring.Loved it.

  • Posted March 15, 2019 5:26 am
    by kristin lesney

    Don’t read much poetry. This is something to take to heart and share.

  • Posted March 15, 2019 12:58 pm
    by Summer Shores

    I love how powerful this post is! So encouraging.

  • Posted March 15, 2019 1:55 pm

    These pictures are beautiful so much emotion in the writing I love it!

  • Posted March 15, 2019 4:43 pm
    by Beth Pierce

    Your words are very spiritual and ring so true. Don’t let anyone take your light from you!

  • Posted March 15, 2019 7:19 pm
    by Amy Desrosiers

    This is so beautiful! I feel as if this might happen to way too many women. I hope you have a great weekend!!

  • Posted March 15, 2019 7:45 pm
    by artchee

    Very inspiring words. Thank you for sharing.

  • Posted March 15, 2019 10:33 pm
    by Tiffany La Forge-Grau

    I couldn’t agree more. Never allow a man to come and steal the best parts of you only when he wants to.

  • Posted March 15, 2019 10:36 pm
    by Wendy Polisi

    Men AND women have a way of using each other these days. Definitely refuse the person who does this to you.

    • Posted March 16, 2019 6:11 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      No one likes being used. Definitely not letting this happen

  • Posted March 17, 2019 12:55 pm
    by Emmanuel Damian

    These are great and strong photos! Follow your passion! Inspire others!

  • Posted March 25, 2019 9:47 am
    by Cirphrank

    Anike, take heed.

    Funke, take kiss.

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