Female Development and Style

Waking up to see my website down was the worst thing I’ve had to see his year.

This was the second time having domain issue; I lost my old domain name years back on Godaddy when I could not pay because Nigerian cards were being declined and my domain transfer failed.

Tears rolled down my cheeks when I discovered that my contents were gone, the crappy customer service from the Qserver rep I contacted added to my pain.
Removed my website link from my social media handles and said I was not sure I’ll ever blog again.
Something in me knew I was not done blogging and the loads of positive message I got from a lot of readers on Instagram inspired me, might have dropped a tear or two.
It’s fulfilling to know that I have been helping people in my own little way. I never want another blogger to go through this, it’s not a good place to be in, imagine remembering an article you wrote which you’re proud of going off. With a lot of thoughtful comments, some had over 100 amazing comments.
For you not to be in my place here are

Tips for bloggers to secure their website


Be sure you’re ready to get self-hosted

Staying on WordPress or blogger platform is free and secured, you shouldn’t have any problem if you don’t forget your password.
Being self-hosted is another ball game. You have to pay for a domain name (www.olotufunke.com) and hosting (your small slice on the internet) although if you don’t have enough funds to pay a website designer you have to do it yourself which builds you but frustrates you more and if you’re not very careful. You can harm your website in the process.
I’ll tell you to pay for professional help if you can, ask your blogger friends to assist and watch tons of Youtube videos.
Be sure that you are ready for the hard work and commitment.

Get a good hosting service

This can make or break your website, if your site always goes down it will affect your visitors which will make your brand suffer, it’s important to get a good one, some of my favorite bloggers swear by Bluehost.
Its compatibility with WordPress gives it a big plus, the top class customer service and free domain name for life among others.
But I find Bluehost to be quite pricey, I’m Nigerian so the exchange rate does not favor me so I went on a serial search for a dependable Nigerian hosting service provider because I don’t want any payment issue and a tech friend told me about Gigalayer 
Immediately went to check them out and they promised quality. What bought me was the option to have my domain transfer done by them.
Remember how my first domain transfer failed? Having the professionals do it for me was like a dream come through. For a year hosting package& domain name transfer, I paid 13,500. That’s a good price if you ask me.
Their customer service was reliable, I kept disturbing them for no reason until the transfer was successful. Everything had to be perfect.

Backup your website

If I had done this there wouldn’t have been any problem but nope. I didn’t. I have decided to stop being harsh on myself. I cannot come kill myself and blaming myself won’t fix anything.

Paying for hosting in advance

When you have the money pay for another year in advance, it’s safer especially if your hosting service is not from your country, if I had paid in advance for my first domain name on Godaddy, the mess that occurred wouldn’t have – could not pay at that period because Nigerian cards were being declined.

After setting up your website, some extra tips for you

  • Keep your passwords to yourself
  • You should update your widgets – Reduce your risk of getting hacked.
Getting my website up and running was the only thing I thought I needed to do to enjoy blogging again; I stopped focusing on the negative bits like losing my content and realized that everything happens for a reason.
God gracefully breaks us to put us in our right place.
But I was stuck! My head was all over the place. It was another chance for me, this has to be my best blog, it had to be perfect. There was so much pressure on me by myself that I could not write anything.
There was a fear of what I was writing is not good enough for the standards that I promised to achieve, the type of value I want to deliver to my readers and what I want my brand to represent.
I will tell you how I got over my fears and insecurities in another post, I’m not one to write long posts and this is already long.
You should also check the About page to know what to expect
You made it here! thank you so much. Your comment will be very much appreciated. Word of encouragement for me? Do you love the space? Something I should adjust? Ever been in this type of situation? I want to hear from you.
Thanks for visiting


  • Posted March 26, 2018 7:17 am
    by Debs

    Some months ago, I was changing my host provider cos the first one was a mess and I lost only 2 contents I poured my heart into, so I can imagine how loosing all can be.

    I’m glad you learnt your lessons (the hard way and it’s painful) but the good thing is that it will never repeat itself. You are more knowledgeable about the issues that comes with blogging and how to fix it.

    Thanks for these tips dear.

    • Posted March 26, 2018 7:34 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Yessss.. It will never happen again in Jesus name.

      I’m glad for the lessons

      Thank you♥

  • Posted March 26, 2018 7:28 am
    by jolaade

    awwwn, pele dear. you’re doing amazingly great with the blog.

  • Posted March 26, 2018 9:36 am
    by Ìbùkúnwrites

    Funkeeeee!!!! Welcome back! Tried leaving a comment on the first post through WordPress and it just wasn’t going through. So glad you’re back. Thanks for the tips! I’ll keep them in mind when I decide to go .com.

    Looking forward to more posts! ?

    • Posted March 26, 2018 9:56 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thanks for visiting love, Keep them in Mind o

      I’ll remind you

  • Posted March 26, 2018 9:53 am
    by Ceejay Lyon

    Thanks for the advice, it’s really needed. Sorry about loosing your content, good thing is you came back better?

    • Posted March 26, 2018 9:58 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Yes Deejay, I came back better & stronger!

      Thank you

  • Posted March 26, 2018 10:59 am
    by tife

    omg funke! i can relate o! that is how i got a domain name, only for me to discover that the theme i picked so weak and i ended up having so many issues. thank God i got professional help as fast as i could. i lost all the posts i put up that were not on my .wordpress.com. i initially wanted to go crazy, but now im learning to deal and blog again from my heart. i just started working on my blog again (with another theme) and hopefully another host by then end of this year.
    i can realte to your pain. keep blogging and keep inspiring as many as you can.
    lookinf forward to more amazing posts from you.


    • Posted March 26, 2018 12:33 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Awwwnnn.. Thank you!

      I’m so sorry about your issues, God will help us with these domain & hosting service.

      Thank God you got professional help and you will definitely get to a place where you will start pouring out your heart to your blog again

  • Posted March 26, 2018 11:27 am
    by ore

    Thank you for this post, very helpful. I should go and back my posts up.
    Welcome back, I’m honestly just glad you’re back

    • Posted March 26, 2018 12:24 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Awwwwnnn… Thank you ore, glad it was helpful

  • Posted March 26, 2018 4:14 pm
    by Jessica

    Sweetheart mi, I’m proud of the woman that you are becoming. You inspire me to do better ???

  • Posted March 26, 2018 5:55 pm
    by Chinwe

    yo girl, this is lovely, I pray for more wisdom IJN

  • Posted March 26, 2018 8:49 pm
    by Eudy

    I can’t imagine loosing all my blog contents.I remember how scared I was when I moved to my current domain humourandstyle.com but thank God i still have all my posts lol.

    I use BLUEHOST. Their customer service is really good. My regret is not purchasing a domain immediately I thought of blogging. The only thing I lost were my blog followers from wordpress.

    If you are a wanna-be blogger, please purchase a domain, awoof dey purge**

    • Posted March 26, 2018 9:06 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Awoof dey purge???

      Over right is worrying everything you’ve written

      Sad we learnt our lesson the hard way but we’ve learnt

  • Posted March 27, 2018 7:26 am
    by Naijafreshgraduate

    I’m sorry you had to go through all that dear. But… Things like this only make you stronger. Welcome back!

  • Posted March 27, 2018 10:10 am
    by Zamany

    best of luck.. more grease to ur elbow hope u dnt loose dis again..dis ma new Fav blogger

  • Posted March 28, 2018 11:30 am
    by Precious

    Oh no! So sad to hear that you lot your blog content, Funke. Glad to see you bouncing back. And thanks for the advice!

    • Posted March 28, 2018 3:16 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you precious, back stronger and better

  • Posted March 28, 2018 2:58 pm
    by Tobi Akinmade

    This is super helpful! I took notes while I read Lol. I can’t even start to imagine what you went through. I’m attached to everything, I don’t know what I’d have done if it were me.

    • Posted March 28, 2018 3:15 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      I’m glad that this was helpful dear. ‘m sure you would have bounced back

  • Posted March 29, 2018 9:02 pm
    by Toks David

    Really sorry about your former blog, do not worry it’ll definitely not happen again. Glad you’re back, I’m looking forward to read more great contents unlike me that has ditched my blog. Thanks for the tips ❤

    • Posted March 30, 2018 5:38 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you love. You ditched your blog??? Whyyy

  • Posted April 2, 2018 3:46 pm
    by Ayobami

    Wow! This is really sad. But the good news is, you’re back and better. Keep up the good job.


  • Posted May 31, 2018 10:43 pm
    by Cirphrank

    And you have emerged stronger! a great young lady, that’s who you are, don’t stop, ever.

  • Posted July 29, 2018 11:22 am
    by Thatgiftedgirl

    Thanks for the tips.. You’re doing a great job boo. Cheers

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