Female Development and Style

There is no Shame in Beginning Again, for you get a chance to build bigger & better than before – Recoveryexperts.com


Beginning Again. – Losing my contents made me realize how much I love writing and documenting it for you. I never want to lose that again. A post on how I lost my contents and advise for bloggers on hosting and content security is coming right up.

I’ll get to what has been going on with me and if this is your first time ever checking my blog. Welcome! and please stay.  

  • I am currently serving in a Hospital in Abuja.
  • Attended my first bloggers’ event
  • Taking up fashion modeling
  • Thinking of taking a course in sales and marketing
  • Convocation soon!
  • Was continually doubting my magic
  • Letting people understand that their opinions on my life are just what it is. OPINIONS. I won’t add a dot for someone that does not deserve a space on a chapter in my book.
  • Reading a financial book – Building my financial knowledge.


About the Blog


I love feminism but I’ll still spell it out. I am a feminist! *screams on top of a mountain in my head* – quick to put people in their place that think low of feminism and sometimes educate does that don’t understand Feminism.

The beauty of feminism will be shared here with you, from Vagina tips to the mental bits of it. I am your girl, always ready to help if you are doubting your magic, trust me. I’ve been there and I have a story that will inspire you and answer your questions.


My great style was not something I was born with; it was something that came as a form of therapy in my down moment years back. It helped me with my low self-esteem and depression. Sounds cliché but if you follow this blog you will understand what I’m talking about with time.

Living above my means is something I have never done. I always shop within my budget, I will show you how to get more from your personal style from spending less.


This baby girl will be styling a lot of skirts because I have observed that skirts are under styled and there are a lot of ladies out there that need tips on styling skirts, most of which have to wear skirts not because they want to but because they have to. confused?


You’ll understand with time on the blog. Most skirt looks are boring and sometimes makes my eyes itch!


I will bring the spice; show that styling skirts can be as fun, chic, versatile & edgy like trousers.

Life bits; Abuja with Funke

I’ve always been an indoor person or at least that’s what I tell myself. I have stayed in Abuja, Nigeria for over 4 years and apart from the church, ShopRite, Coldstone and chicken republic, I don’t go to other places until recently.

But I’m understanding the power of enjoying your surroundings, networking and starting to enjoy Abuja because of the NYSC scheme so I will love to give detailed guides to girls like me that are usually indoors and want to make the most of their time when they decide to leave their beds.


I have always been a writer, storyteller. I have a wild imagination it’s almost a flaw.

With my fictional pieces, I will take you along with me on different journeys, you will feel different emotions and I know you will enjoy the ride.

A big thank you to the friends that pushed me to start again and the readers that sent me direct messages on Instagram to keep going. Thank you so much!

And please read my About Me page to know more about me.

Love my new theme? The blog feel? should I work on something? What category are you most excited about? I’ve missed your amazing comments.

These pictures were taken by the amazing @stuffedbox

he was such a gentleman, has a good eye for great location and definitely someone I’ll love to work with often.

Outfit Details

Crop top – Thrift store @shopwitholotu

skirt – Thrifted

Bag – Thrifted

Shoe – Random shoe seller

Thank you so much for reading and please subscribe to my space with your email so you don’t miss any of the fun stuff.

See you soon





  • Posted March 24, 2018 1:55 pm
    by Habila

    Glad you’re back! Can’t wait to see what you have in store for your readers/followers. We’ll definitely create more magic! All the best. xo

  • Posted March 24, 2018 2:54 pm
    by Tosin Olaniyi

    Yassss. Good to have you back, girl
    Tosin Olaniyi xx

  • Posted March 24, 2018 2:55 pm
    by Kené

    Good to have you back. Look forward to more from you.


  • Posted March 24, 2018 3:16 pm
    by Tony

    Wow. Didn’t know that. Glad you’re back anyway. I just clicked a link in one of your blog emails yesterday and it didn’t go through. I was wondering what happened. Looking forward to your new posts.

    • Posted March 24, 2018 7:32 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Oh my. Tony I’m glad you’re here and actually subscribed .. Thank you!

  • Posted March 24, 2018 6:16 pm
    by Sogie

    Welcome back dear. Can’t wait to see all the contents you produce

  • Posted March 24, 2018 11:41 pm
    by Vincent Desmond

    Yesss! Congratulations dear on your comeback I pray for a better you and better contents


  • Posted March 25, 2018 2:00 pm
    by Ajibike Oyindamola

    Welcome back Funke!
    Looking forward to new contents, particularly poetry and those relating to feminism ?

    Life of Dammy

    • Posted March 25, 2018 2:03 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you Dammy! Those are coming with spice!

  • Posted March 25, 2018 2:44 pm
    by Tobi Akinmade

    Glad to have you back! Your haircut suites you perfectly ?

    • Posted March 25, 2018 2:45 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you Tobi, I’m happy to be back

  • Posted March 25, 2018 3:22 pm
    by Olaitan

    Welcome back hun. Waiting on that post on content security. I’m looking forward to the style segment! Because yes, styling skirts could give headaches at times. Well done dear. xx

  • Posted March 25, 2018 3:31 pm
    by Firstmahn

    Welcome back!!! Hoping for more awesome posts.

  • Posted March 25, 2018 5:25 pm
    by Ada

    Welcome back dear http://www.adagirl.com.ng

  • Posted March 25, 2018 5:45 pm
    by Onome

    Oh! Welcome back dear… And this was an amazing read. Hopefully lessons learnt. Blog security and backup is ultimately important…

  • Posted March 25, 2018 5:51 pm
    by MELIA

    very impressed… way to go miss Olotu … we gat your back, front, side and center ❤

  • Posted March 25, 2018 9:37 pm
    by Anniedora

    So glad to hve you back? and im super excited about your new series’ ???

    • Posted March 25, 2018 9:42 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      I’m excited toooo… Thanks Annie

  • Posted March 25, 2018 10:01 pm
    by Obinna

    I don’t really know yu in person… Js met yu on a social media platform(Facebook to be precise)…. Ah js feel ders dis more of yu coming…ah cant explain d feeling bt am anticipating….ah knw it’s worth d waiting… And ah believe yu wunt disappoint…thanks and God bless!!

    • Posted March 25, 2018 10:03 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you so much Obinna. There is definitely alot coming from me♥

  • Posted March 25, 2018 10:15 pm
    by Vivian

    Welcome back baby,keep the fire burning.

  • Posted March 26, 2018 7:11 am
    by Debs

    Right here to enjoy this ride with you, Funke. You’ve always been on of my fav blogger and you’ve never disappointed me. I’m so glad you took the plunge to start again! Let’s get started already ?? And you look amazing in those pictures.

    Yes to styling skirt!!!

    • Posted March 26, 2018 7:33 am
      by thefunkeolotu


      Thank you so much!

      I deeply appreciate you, you’ve been here since day 1

  • Posted March 26, 2018 9:41 am
    by Ceejay Lyon

    Welcome back, looking forward to amazing content?

  • Posted March 28, 2018 11:51 am
    by Precious

    Glad to see you again, Funke! That quote about no shame in beginning again is everything!

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  • Posted April 19, 2018 10:23 am
    by Winifred

    terrible. It must have been hurtful loosing your content. But I’m glad you were able to start again. Congratulations! I hope to see more of your content here.

    • Posted April 30, 2018 2:48 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you Winnie! It was really painful

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  • Posted April 2, 2019 4:32 pm
    by Simply Phina

    I’m an old follower and I’ve been looking for your blog. You’re inspiring, I love poetry and writing aswell. I hope to learn from you. Thank you for not giving up and starting again.

    • Posted April 3, 2019 1:53 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      Phina, I am so happy you found me! thank you for your kind words

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