Female Development and Style


 Dear Friend,

I wish I could take away all your pain,

Beat up all the boys that ever made you cry,

Protect you from their lies.

I wish you listened more to me when I said, “he’s not for you, you can do better.”

I wish they had eyes so they could see how amazing you are.

I wish they can see what I see in you:

This smart, beautiful person.

But you see, they are blind.

And I wish you’d believe me when I say, “nothing is wrong with you and it’s not your fault.”

But because he’s not the first, you blame yourself and look for a fault that is not there.

Dear friend, if these boys can’t give you the love you deserve, they shouldn’t be in your life.

So please, cry if you need to, then wipe your tears and let them go.



How to Treat Yourself – Poetry

A letter to my younger self

Questions From Her – A Slice of Heaven


  • Posted April 17, 2019 8:46 pm
    by Cirphrank

    Listen to your soul, only you can make you whole.

  • Posted April 29, 2019 3:39 pm
    by Mary Edwards

    Beautiful just beautiful. Perfect to share to friends going through breakups or just dealing with day to day life.

  • Posted April 29, 2019 4:46 pm
    by Stacie

    This is so beautiful and SO powerful! I love the beauty blended with the core of steel that means being a strong woman.

  • Posted April 30, 2019 12:59 am
    by Brianne Manz

    What a beautiful post. I love how it says you can cry if you must but then return to yourself. That is a powerful writing. I appreciate you sharing with us.

  • Posted April 30, 2019 10:03 am
    by Subhashish Roy

    Lovely. Yes why cry for someone who doesn’t deserve it. Rather cry for those around us who love us.

  • Posted April 30, 2019 10:55 am
    by Snehal

    Such a sweet poem. I would like to read some more from you. 🙂

    • Posted April 30, 2019 11:07 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      Thank you, you should check the poetry section

  • Posted April 30, 2019 1:15 pm
    by Blairvillanueva

    Your letter proves that you are a precious good friend. You write beautifully!

  • Posted April 30, 2019 3:32 pm
    by emman damian

    What a very moving poem. So artistic and poetic! Good job!

  • Posted April 30, 2019 10:44 pm
    by Tiffany La Forge-Grau

    This is so beautiful. We all need to have a friend like this. I have one in my mother.

    • Posted May 1, 2019 9:49 am
      by thefunkeolotu

      I am that friend and I’m glad I have one in my corner

  • Posted April 30, 2019 10:47 pm
    by Joanna Clute

    I really love this. I one day wish to pass along this very message.

  • Posted May 1, 2019 4:59 am
    by Heather

    What a beautiful letter. Thank you for sharing this. It’s lovely.

  • Posted May 1, 2019 12:16 pm
    by Becca Wilson

    This is such a heartfelt letter. It’s amazing what just a few words to other people can really do and make you feel.

    • Posted May 1, 2019 12:36 pm
      by thefunkeolotu

      I love doing that, making people feel things. Thank you Becca

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