Welcome lovelies, I was reading some new blogs today and I stumbled on this beautiful and heartfelt write up, I just had to share it with you, I hope it speaks to you cause I can tell you that every word is real!
It’s okay to be in love
It’s okay to be in love… but never be so in love, that it drowns you in salt water, making you blind.
If a man loves you back, he will show you…
no if and’s or buts about that one…
and he will want the world to know it, and that you are his girl and he won’t be hiding you.
I am a man, so I can tell you, about how a man thinks. A man in love will not choose his… homeboys over his girl.
He doesn’t give a damn what they think… he will fill his Facebook page up with pictures of the both of you, because he wants to show his girl off…
he goes everywhere with his girl… he supplies her every need within his reach.
She never ever has to ask, because when a man loves his girl, he already knows what she needs and has no problem giving it to her.
He does what ever he has to do to make her happy without loosing his manhood… because at some point, a man has to stop a woman in her tracks, and remind her not to take his kindness for a weakness.
No relationship is perfect… but some are worth those small bumps in the road.
Learn to distinguish the difference between love and bull****.
Love can be seen and felt and talks to you daily… sometimes all day. Don’t waste your time on a man who will not waste a minute on you. Don’t fool your mind into seeing illusions. There is somebody out here for everybody, and if he don’t want you, someone else will.
There are two kinds of women I keep seeing:
The one who complains all day about a man and the woman who never complains at all because she is too busy enjoying life with a man who genuinely loves her because she knows what love is and what a man looks like who loves her. The other woman doesn’t have a clue at all… that’s why she keeps ending up with the men she rants about.
What are your thoughts? Do you agree with the writer? i’ll love to hear from you!