You guys I’m sad, like really sad
This guy has been talking to me for a while now, since I was in my last relationship, of course I payed no attention to him then and I’ve been single for over 5 months so you can imagine how long he’s been talking to me
I never really took him seriously But these past few weeks, he has been serious and I’ve been wanting him more and more, I considered giving him a chance but something was still holding me back, I think it was the fear of me falling out of love like I did with my ex, you can read about that Here or just a feeling that he was not the right person.
So I wanted to take my time, I wanted to be sure of myself.
Then lo and behold I was talking to one of my male friends that was with him recently and you know we girls once we are into a guy we want to know everything!
So I brought his name up in our conversation and he was said oh him, he has this and that, then I heard that he is in a relationship with some girl and has been for over 5 years, he said it casually because he didn’t know that the guy was asking me out ( one reason why you should not tell people your business, if he knew he might have held back,you know? Guy code
Over 5 YEARS!!! like who does that to someone he has been with for over five years! And wait to me! My ex is probably laughing at this post, I hate you ???
I’ll be in his crib with my shorts and crop top then someone will ring the bell and I’ll go and open it and she’ll ask who I am and I’ll say I’m his girlfriend and she’ll tell me that she’s his babe for over 5 years! I actually imagined this happening if I had agreed.
I pity the girl so much! When you’ve been in a relationship that long, you feel secure with that person and she’s probably waiting for the ring.
And the guy is just a big asshole! 5 years is nothing?! What if he gets caught cheating, he’ll throw away 5 years of being with someone
I could not help but imagine what would have happened to my heart if I had agreed, I’ll be devastated, what will be my story ( am I over reacting?? This post would have been entirely different. I thank God.
I hope I’m not over reacting ??
I pray something happens soon, she either find out that he’s a fuvkboy ( she does not know yet because I don’t know her or have her contact, if not! I will tell her because we ladies should be holding ourselves down and not allowing other ladies fall for these type of loosers or maybe because I’m just pained haha??
Have you ever been in this type of mess? One word for this guy